I saw this post on Facebook a minute ago and it sparked by sleeping writer's mind. Haha! These past few days have been quite a struggle for me (new job and all) and writing puts my brain into relaxation mode.
So, do you REALLY want to know how it feels? Let me tell you more about it. Haha!
IT'S A BIT LONELY.
Oh common guys admit it. You have those days wherein you'd see couples around you and there you are walking in the streets alone, eating alone or in my case having coffee alone. It makes you wonder why in this world full of you and me's (I know, there's no such thing as "me's" in the English dictionary, but there is in my blog so ignore it. haha), there you are hoping for a you and I. Haha! But nonetheless it can also beeeee....
LIBERATING.
No more "I'm here at." or "Can I do this?" or "Where are you's?". Being single teaches you to stand on your own and you're learning to make decisions by yourself without relying on someone to make it for you. It makes you realise what you really want and gives you permission to do it. Right away. In your own terms.
MAKES YOU COMFORTABLE OF BEING ALONE.
Which I don't know whether or not it's a good thing. Haha! Sometimes you'd get used to your own presence that you don't know how to act around other people. Weird. I know. Don't ask me why. Continue reading. Haha!
PROMPTS YOU TO BECOME SOCIABLE.
I'm the type of person who can sometimes be sociable and sometimes not. There are times when I just don't feel like talking. There's nothing wrong with me and I'm not upset or anything. (If it's lunch time I'm just probably hungry. Haha) I just want silence. Haha! Being single forces you to be sociable in all events. It kindaaa forces you to attend events as well. People would be like, "Why don't you go to this and that?" to meet more people.
Me: Nah, too tired to function. Haha! (Boring person right duuuuur.)
YOU'D SAY YES TO DATING BUT WILL SAY NO AFTER ONE OR TWO TIMES, MAYBE THREE.
They say that this is the time of your life to try and go on as much dates as you can. I beg to disagree. (You can agree if you want, this is just me. Haha). Dating is so overrated. Most people think that the more dates you go to the more beautiful you are. Dating doesn't validate you. God does and you are so worth more than the number of boys you've dated. Amen? :)
Annnnd, don't you think it's better to go out with someone who really has interests in you and what you like and all that "I want to know more of you" stuff rather than going out with someone who is just talking to you and asking you out because he/she has nothing better to do that day?
MAKES YOU FORGET HOW TO BE SWEET.
And it also makes you feel weird when someone is all of a sudden sweet to you. :P
MAKES YOU A LITTLE BIT WISER ABOUT LOVE.
Well, all of us became dumb at certain point of our lives especially when it's about love. (Trust me. I know. Haha!) However, as the years passed you kinda know whether or not this person is worth your time.
Finally, (because I'm running out of things to say---or in this case,write.)IT FEELS AWESOMETASTIC! And normal.
Haha. I just wanted to write that down. Some kiwi thing I learned in the past year. Haha!
Psalm 37:4 "Delight yourself in the LORD and HE will give you the desires of your heart."
Laters guys! :) Anything you want me to write about? :) God bless everybody! :)
P.S. Shoutout to my housemate Juna for taking the photos. I'm running out of photos to share so whoever is up for some random photo taking activities, lemme know! Haha :P
xoxo, Gennin <3
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